6 Reasons made humans fleeing from love, whether their wish to bring or not ..
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Although
love is driven by the engine of life , but most humans have decided to
avoid it , to realize them or lack of awareness , for many reasons, and
we are going to shed light on the top six reasons :
Fear of leaving the old and familiar :
Love hurts because it transforms .. Love is a boom Each shift or transition will no doubt painful , because the old must be left to the new .. Usually the old familiar, safe and secure , and the new completely unknown .. Will be moving in the vicinity of the unknown .. You can not use your mind with ' new " .. excels mind with only old .. the mind can only work with the" old " .. What is new , the mind completely useless ..
Hence, fear arises , to leave the old comfortable , safe .. The pain also arises .. This is the same pain you feel when the baby comes out of the womb of the mother .. Is the same pain you feel when he graduated from bird egg .. This is the same pain that you will feel it when the birds will try for the first time that the uniqueness of the wing and fly ..
Fear of the unknown , the insecurity of the unknown, and the inability to predict the future, makes one of many fear ..
Because of that shift will be from " ego " about the case of the lack of " ego " , is a very deep agony .. But you can not experience the euphoria without going through agony .. If gold wants to be pure , it must pass through the fire ..
Love the suffering and torment :
Love is the fire ..
Millions of people live a life without love .. This is because love hurts .. Live without love and also suffer , and suffering to no avail .. Of suffering in love is not like someone who is suffering in vain .. Suffering in love creativity , creation and this suffering takes you to higher levels of consciousness .. The suffering of love is completely This is absurd, it does not lead to any target or place .. They make you move in the same vicious circle itself ..
Man who lives without love is suffering from narcissism .. He closed on the same .. Because he knows himself only .. Others work like a mirror that reflects yourself .. To what extent can know the man himself if he does not know the other ? ? .. Can not know yourself without knowing others .. Love a very basic rule for self-knowledge as well .. A person who did not know the other through deep love, and intense passion , you will not be able to find out who he is, because he does not have a mirror through which to see his reflection ..
Fear of detection inside us :
In the love affair we say that others will become Comeratk , fear arises also from the reflection of yourself in ugly neither interested nor satisfy it .. So you might run away from the other and run away from love .. But avoid the mirror .. Will not improve your picture will not become beautiful .. Avoid the mirror will not make you grow and evolve as well .. You must accept the challenge .. No escape ..
Relationships are the mirror of your soul whenever love net and lofty in the relationship .. Whenever the mirror clean and clear .. In order to transcend love needs to get rid of the contract and psychiatric .. And whenever called love Whenever became a person transparent and thin .. Must leave all shields and psychological defenses and causing pain .. Is not necessary to always be on standby .. Must drop the mind and the expense of everything .. You must run the risk .. You have to live dangerously .. Fear of getting rid of armor so that you will become transparent so Siri others Chwewejtk the and thus Saodhuk .. May be subject to rejection also that of the greatest fears of love ..
The fear of losing personal " ego " :
Love is an open space Flying the wings .. But certainly , unlimited sky creates fear ..And the abandonment of personal " ego " is no doubt a very painful because we are all what we have learned is to cultivate personal .. We believe that the personal is the only gain .. Love hurts because when we fall in love suddenly lose the " ego " .. The ego is what we have built all those years and we Nlmaha and Nzachrvha ..Love gives you the first experience to be in tune with something that is not your own ego .. Love gives you the first lesson that can be located in tune with the person who has never been a part of yourself .. If you can be in harmony with a woman, and if you are possible to be in harmony with a friend , if you can be in harmony with your child or with your mother , why can not be in harmony with all human beings ? .. If harmony with one person gives all this joy .. What will be the result if you are in harmony with all human beings ? .. If you can be in harmony with all human beings , why can not be in harmony with the animals, birds and trees? .. One step leads to another step ..
Love him .. It starts with one person, and end up with a total .. Love is the beginning , God is the end .. Fear of love .. The fear of the pain of love .. Makes you live in the dark ..
Narcissism and self - isolation :
Modern humans live in a dark cell .. Narcissism is the largest modern obsession of the mind ..And then there were problems, and the problems that have no meaning .. There are problems in creative and innovative as they lead you to the higher level of consciousness .. There are problems that do not lead to anywhere ' they simply make you tied up , they make you simply damage and spin in the old mess ..
Love creates problems .. You can avoid these problems by avoiding love .. But these very basic problems ! ! .. And must be met , must be experienced and pass through in order to go deep into understanding .. And overcome .. The road through love .. Love is the only real thing worth doing .. Everything else is secondary .. Everything else is just a means , love is the end .. So no matter how painful it was love , we must continue it ..
If you decide not to deepen in love as he does a lot of people if I have decided .. To be stuck with yourself .. If your life will be a spiritual journey .. If your life will be like a river flowing into the ocean .. Your life will be stagnant pool .. And dirty .. Soon there will be only dirt and mud .. To maintain the serenity .. One needs to keep the flow .. The river remains clean because it does not know the recession , but flowing to Machae God .. Permanent flow is what makes the river constantly renewed ..
Lovers and lovers always flow like a river .. So find the vital flow through them .. As for the disappearance of the love of their lives , lacking vital to have quickly get sluggish and recession .. Life is a journey slow death ..
So you 'll find an infected person age neurological diseases and all kinds of rampant madness .. You'll find that mental illness has taken epic proportions .. Previously there was a small number of mentally ill individuals Now, the truth seems to be the whole earth has become a mental hospital .. Human beings suffer from a kind of mania ..
This neurosis and mental illness are all due to the recession and narcissism .. And the individual stuck in the illusion that his independent personality than the others , which led to madness .. This madness is meaningless, unproductive , non-constructive .. Or people start to commit suicide .. And suicides also those non-productive , non-constructive ..
Suicide may not be by eating poison or jump off a cliff or by shooting yourself , but you can commit suicide is very slow , and this is what happens .. Very few people commit suicide suddenly .. Others decided to commit suicide slowly gradually .. The tendency to commit suicide almost become a global phenomenon ..
This is no way to live, and the main reason is that we have forgotten the language of love .. We do not have enough courage to go to the adventure that is called love ..
Fear of involvement and commitment :
Instead of love people choose to have sex, because sex is not dangerous .. Because sex had no need for involvement or commitment .. The involvement and commitment of love .. It is not received .. And when it becomes his roots , can be forever .. It can be a lifetime commitment .. Love needs intimacy, and only when there is intimate , the other becomes a mirror reflecting the ego .. In the sexual relationship never meet two people .. And that two people avoiding real life meet .. And the relationship be the only kind of exploitation of the body and escape .. Without that there will become intimate enough to reveal each other 's faces Originally ..
Love hurts, but it should not escape and Ntjunbh .. Because escape Christrmk of growth and development .. You must go into the midst of love and suffering because that 's what brings eternal happiness .. Suffering in love is a bridge leading to paradise .. Yes in love annihilate the self and disappear but remember that what will keep the spirit .. It will give you the first taste of love Naim .. And love will give you a bright proof that God exists , that life is meaningless ..
People who say that life is meaningless are the people who did not know love .. All they are saying is that their lives might have missed her love ..
Fear of leaving the old and familiar :
Love hurts because it transforms .. Love is a boom Each shift or transition will no doubt painful , because the old must be left to the new .. Usually the old familiar, safe and secure , and the new completely unknown .. Will be moving in the vicinity of the unknown .. You can not use your mind with ' new " .. excels mind with only old .. the mind can only work with the" old " .. What is new , the mind completely useless ..
Hence, fear arises , to leave the old comfortable , safe .. The pain also arises .. This is the same pain you feel when the baby comes out of the womb of the mother .. Is the same pain you feel when he graduated from bird egg .. This is the same pain that you will feel it when the birds will try for the first time that the uniqueness of the wing and fly ..
Fear of the unknown , the insecurity of the unknown, and the inability to predict the future, makes one of many fear ..
Because of that shift will be from " ego " about the case of the lack of " ego " , is a very deep agony .. But you can not experience the euphoria without going through agony .. If gold wants to be pure , it must pass through the fire ..
Love the suffering and torment :
Love is the fire ..
Millions of people live a life without love .. This is because love hurts .. Live without love and also suffer , and suffering to no avail .. Of suffering in love is not like someone who is suffering in vain .. Suffering in love creativity , creation and this suffering takes you to higher levels of consciousness .. The suffering of love is completely This is absurd, it does not lead to any target or place .. They make you move in the same vicious circle itself ..
Man who lives without love is suffering from narcissism .. He closed on the same .. Because he knows himself only .. Others work like a mirror that reflects yourself .. To what extent can know the man himself if he does not know the other ? ? .. Can not know yourself without knowing others .. Love a very basic rule for self-knowledge as well .. A person who did not know the other through deep love, and intense passion , you will not be able to find out who he is, because he does not have a mirror through which to see his reflection ..
Fear of detection inside us :
In the love affair we say that others will become Comeratk , fear arises also from the reflection of yourself in ugly neither interested nor satisfy it .. So you might run away from the other and run away from love .. But avoid the mirror .. Will not improve your picture will not become beautiful .. Avoid the mirror will not make you grow and evolve as well .. You must accept the challenge .. No escape ..
Relationships are the mirror of your soul whenever love net and lofty in the relationship .. Whenever the mirror clean and clear .. In order to transcend love needs to get rid of the contract and psychiatric .. And whenever called love Whenever became a person transparent and thin .. Must leave all shields and psychological defenses and causing pain .. Is not necessary to always be on standby .. Must drop the mind and the expense of everything .. You must run the risk .. You have to live dangerously .. Fear of getting rid of armor so that you will become transparent so Siri others Chwewejtk the and thus Saodhuk .. May be subject to rejection also that of the greatest fears of love ..
The fear of losing personal " ego " :
Love is an open space Flying the wings .. But certainly , unlimited sky creates fear ..And the abandonment of personal " ego " is no doubt a very painful because we are all what we have learned is to cultivate personal .. We believe that the personal is the only gain .. Love hurts because when we fall in love suddenly lose the " ego " .. The ego is what we have built all those years and we Nlmaha and Nzachrvha ..Love gives you the first experience to be in tune with something that is not your own ego .. Love gives you the first lesson that can be located in tune with the person who has never been a part of yourself .. If you can be in harmony with a woman, and if you are possible to be in harmony with a friend , if you can be in harmony with your child or with your mother , why can not be in harmony with all human beings ? .. If harmony with one person gives all this joy .. What will be the result if you are in harmony with all human beings ? .. If you can be in harmony with all human beings , why can not be in harmony with the animals, birds and trees? .. One step leads to another step ..
Love him .. It starts with one person, and end up with a total .. Love is the beginning , God is the end .. Fear of love .. The fear of the pain of love .. Makes you live in the dark ..
Narcissism and self - isolation :
Modern humans live in a dark cell .. Narcissism is the largest modern obsession of the mind ..And then there were problems, and the problems that have no meaning .. There are problems in creative and innovative as they lead you to the higher level of consciousness .. There are problems that do not lead to anywhere ' they simply make you tied up , they make you simply damage and spin in the old mess ..
Love creates problems .. You can avoid these problems by avoiding love .. But these very basic problems ! ! .. And must be met , must be experienced and pass through in order to go deep into understanding .. And overcome .. The road through love .. Love is the only real thing worth doing .. Everything else is secondary .. Everything else is just a means , love is the end .. So no matter how painful it was love , we must continue it ..
If you decide not to deepen in love as he does a lot of people if I have decided .. To be stuck with yourself .. If your life will be a spiritual journey .. If your life will be like a river flowing into the ocean .. Your life will be stagnant pool .. And dirty .. Soon there will be only dirt and mud .. To maintain the serenity .. One needs to keep the flow .. The river remains clean because it does not know the recession , but flowing to Machae God .. Permanent flow is what makes the river constantly renewed ..
Lovers and lovers always flow like a river .. So find the vital flow through them .. As for the disappearance of the love of their lives , lacking vital to have quickly get sluggish and recession .. Life is a journey slow death ..
So you 'll find an infected person age neurological diseases and all kinds of rampant madness .. You'll find that mental illness has taken epic proportions .. Previously there was a small number of mentally ill individuals Now, the truth seems to be the whole earth has become a mental hospital .. Human beings suffer from a kind of mania ..
This neurosis and mental illness are all due to the recession and narcissism .. And the individual stuck in the illusion that his independent personality than the others , which led to madness .. This madness is meaningless, unproductive , non-constructive .. Or people start to commit suicide .. And suicides also those non-productive , non-constructive ..
Suicide may not be by eating poison or jump off a cliff or by shooting yourself , but you can commit suicide is very slow , and this is what happens .. Very few people commit suicide suddenly .. Others decided to commit suicide slowly gradually .. The tendency to commit suicide almost become a global phenomenon ..
This is no way to live, and the main reason is that we have forgotten the language of love .. We do not have enough courage to go to the adventure that is called love ..
Fear of involvement and commitment :
Instead of love people choose to have sex, because sex is not dangerous .. Because sex had no need for involvement or commitment .. The involvement and commitment of love .. It is not received .. And when it becomes his roots , can be forever .. It can be a lifetime commitment .. Love needs intimacy, and only when there is intimate , the other becomes a mirror reflecting the ego .. In the sexual relationship never meet two people .. And that two people avoiding real life meet .. And the relationship be the only kind of exploitation of the body and escape .. Without that there will become intimate enough to reveal each other 's faces Originally ..
Love hurts, but it should not escape and Ntjunbh .. Because escape Christrmk of growth and development .. You must go into the midst of love and suffering because that 's what brings eternal happiness .. Suffering in love is a bridge leading to paradise .. Yes in love annihilate the self and disappear but remember that what will keep the spirit .. It will give you the first taste of love Naim .. And love will give you a bright proof that God exists , that life is meaningless ..
People who say that life is meaningless are the people who did not know love .. All they are saying is that their lives might have missed her love ..
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